Mrs Dave gives great hand-jobs. I mean really world class pleasure here. You'll just have to take my word for that, I'm not sharing. There's this thing she does when she uses both hands at once that is absolutely mind-blowing.
I have mentioned before that I like a bit of the old prostate stimulation on occasions and Mrs Dave is often kind enough to oblige. She is also often kind enough to oblige while giving one of her world class hand-jobs. The only problem is, with one hand occupied stimulating, she can't do the mind-blowing two hand technique. Not without growing a third hand anyway. Given that this is fairly unlikely without major advances in genetic technology, it always looked like this would remain an impossibility. Then we had an idea - we invested in a harness and a dildo, the Mistress by the good folks at Vixen Creations, to go in it.
This is probably not the solution that most people would come up with, but it is one I can heartily endorse. It is a fairly confronting thing at first. Toys are one thing but a strap-on dildo is a completely different level of kink. As someone who is used to being the fucker, the roll of fuckee takes a bit of getting used to.
Fortunately, the Mistress is a pretty good choice for the novice fuckee. For a start, even though it is cock-shaped, it isn't realistically cock-shaped. It's bright blue for a start and it's a fairly stylised design, rather than a hyper-realistic thing covered in veins. It still looked pretty scary jutting out from Mrs Dave's groin though.Nonetheless, having paid for the thing I wasn't going to chicken out before trying it (besides the thought of one of those world class hand-jobs plus prostate stimulation did give me courage). We lubed it (and me) up and slipped it in. This is where the Mistress is also a good choice for a novice fuckee. It isn't too big. It's long, so it gets in there and stimulates all the bits it should stimulate (and does a damn fine job of it, too) but it isn't too thick. As I have said before, I like prostate stimulation, not having something the size of a small tree shoved up there.
There were some unexpected logistical issues, which those of you out there who would like to try this would do well to consider. I may have mentioned before that Mrs Dave and I differ considerably in height. I am a good 30 cm (or foot, for our US readers) taller. This means that there are many regular sex positions that just don't work for us. Over the years we have worked out what works and what doesn't. Guess what? When the roles are reversed, a bunch of those positions don't work and an bunch of the normally non-working ones do. It took a bit of fumbling about to get things right.
Although this isn't marketed specifically as an anal toy (though anal is listed as one of the things it is good for) it does an admirable job. The head provides extra stimulation and it's a good size. My ripple plug provides more stimulation due to the ripples (duh) but requires more control on the part of the user to not cause discomfort as it moves in and out. In the hands of an novice fucker, the smooth shaft of the Mistress is a better option. There is also a spot at the base where you can insert a small bullet vibe to provide some extra sensation which is nice as well.
The one big disadvantage with this (and I suspect with all strap-ons) is that there is very little sensation (other than the warm glow of a job well done) for the fucker. I'm not sure there is any solution to this other than the fuckee making sure that the fucker is well looked after once the deed is done.
And the result of the two handed hand-job with prostate stimulation thrown in? Amazing! Guys, it's a pretty weird thing being on the receiving end for a change but seriously, it's well worth it and the Mistress is the perfect tool for the job.
